The 90 Day’s Gays: The Unofficial TLC 90 Day Fiancé Podcast

The 90 Day’s Gays: The Unofficial TLC 90 Day Fiancé Podcast


Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love reality shows about lonely hearts looking for love. They recap it all including, TLC’s 90 Day Fiancé, Love is Blind on Netflix, Too Hot to Handle on Netflix, and some other shows where the people are just hot messes looking for love. If you’ve been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show…well you’re welcome.

Matt is a clinical psychologist, while Jake is a life-coach and teacher. And they both are shady queens who are boggled at the insane ways some of these people search for love in this world. The only thing more certain than a K-1 Visa or a venereal disease, is the fact that Jake and Matt will keep you laughing at these lovebirds while also judging their choices. #BlessTheirHearts But none of it is mean, because Jake and Matt get it. At the end of the day, aren’t we all just looking for our little piece of love?

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Jovi and Elvis wait for Yara at the altar; it’s day 90 for Mike and Natalie; Amira reaches her breaking point with Andrew; Stephanie is ready to start over with Harris; Jovi and Yara welcome their new baby.

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